Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman's Fire
By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Women are very tactile beings. They love to be touched and caressed.
Hold her, massage her, tease and tantalize her playfully with your fingers.
Don't go straight to the genitals, pay attention to her whole body.
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons for a woman.
Looking into her eyes or touching her face while kissing her can increase the
arousal of the kiss. Kissing other parts of the body such as the neck, belly,
inner thighs, buttocks, pelvis area surrounding the vagina, fingers and
maybe even the feet for some can heighten her pleasure.
3. Emotional Connection
For women, sex is usually an emotional act as well as
a physical act. The deeper the emotional connection, the better the sex
will be for her and the deeper her desire for her lover will become. Share
your feelings with your woman and express how you feel about her freely. For
her, what goes on outside the bedroom is an important factor of what will
occur in the bedroom.
4. Foreplay & Aferplay
There is nothing that
is a bigger turn off for a woman than a lover who immediately begins
penetration without tending to her body and mind. Just as important as
foreplay is the period of time immediately following the sex,
afterplay. Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the
sexual experience and will have a great impact on how she responds to her
lover in the future.
5. Make Her Feel Important
Women also need to
feel important to their lover. Take an active interest in who she is as a
person and what goes on in her life. Ignite your woman's passion by making
her feel special, cherished and adored.
6. Value and Respect
For sex to be at its best, most women need to feel valued and respected by their
lover. Her desire and level of satisfaction will grow deeper. She will want
her lover more frequently and be more motivated to meet his sexual needs
Women are more attracted to a man who listens to
her and actually hears her. Being heard makes her feel important
and valued, thereby increasing her feelings of intimacy with her lover and
encouraging her to be free and uninhibited in her lovemaking. Her level of
satisfaction is enhanced and her desire for her lover increased.
Show Her Your Passion & Desire
A woman wants to be wanted passionately.
She wants to see your deep desire for her and feel how much you want
her. Pursue her passionately and she will be a wild cat full
9. Take Your Time
The path to orgasm is just as
fulfilling as the orgasm itself and the path is also important for enhancing
her orgasmic experience. Take the long meandering road, savoring,
pampering and adoring every part of her body along the way.
10. Be a
Master of Oral
The majority of women cannot achieve orgasm
through intercourse. Taking pleasure in delighting your woman orally is by
far one of the most enjoyable ways for her to be satisfied.
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