"The more you hate, the more you love."
What an ironic statement. Whoever said those words must
have been drunk. The bottom line is this: It is extremely
difficult to like or love something that you despise.
But what can we do to solve this dilemma? What if you're
trapped in an environment that you don't want to be involved
in? What if you're sick and tired of your job that you
feel like puking every time someone mentions your work?
The smart thing is to take inspired action and get yourself
out of your present rut to start living the life you've
always dreamed of.
Guess what? It's not going to be easy. You will have to
come out of your comfort zones to discover potentials and
opportunities waiting for you. You have to conquer your
fear and take calculated risks. You have to stay focused
and persevere despite the difficulties you will encounter.
Success doesn't come easy. It takes heart and passion.
It may also take some time before you can actually reap
the fruits of your labor.
But how do you actually survive this stage? This is the
moment when you're working extra hard to reach your goals.
This is also the instance when you're enduring whatever
adversity hits you.
For example, let's say you're employed in a job that you
hate. You know deep inside that you would not like to stay
in the rat race throughout your life. So you decided to
engage in a part-time business or to study night courses.
Good move, my friend.
So far so good. However a few days later things start
going wrong. Your family complains that you're neglecting
them over something that hasn't produced anything so far.
Not only that. You're getting crazy over your very hectic
schedule. Soon enough, attitude changes negatively. You
get mad and frustrated over the tiniest setbacks. You hate
the world for all the misery it has brought upon you.
Stop it right there!
That is the absolute wrong thing to do, because the law
of attraction states that whatever you resist will persist.
That means by being negative you attract more negative
situations in your life.
Yes, you have to work harder, dig deeper, and sacrifice
more to attain your ambitions.
But no, you don't have to hate the world and feel bad
about your difficult situation, because if you hate the
world, the world will hate you back.
So what do you have to do?
Learn to love your current situation. See all the
positive sides of life. Be enthusiastic. Love your
boss, your coworkers, your family, your friends, and
even strangers that you meet on the streets. It may
not be easy, but nothing is impossible with a strong
will power. Just don't fall in love so much that you
totally forget about your dreams.
Balance is the key. Dream and take some positive
action to move you toward your goals. Take it one
step at a time. But while you're slowly crawling
into the long journey to success, be patient and be
as enthusiastic as possible. Don't hurry up too much
that you totally forget how to enjoy life.
Focus on the things you want, because the law
of attraction also states that whatever you focus on
expands. This means, by focussing on the things you
want, and not the things you don't want you'll
attract what you want faster.
One fine day, you will finally attain what you have
always longed for. But when that day comes, don't
spit back on the face of those who belittled you
Stay humble. Don't look down on others when you see
that you are becoming more successful than they are.
Help them. Inject your positive aura into their
personalities. When you give, you will yield back
equal or greater rewards.
Are you ready to begin the journey? Start it with
the courage and desire to improve your life. Survive
and go through it with persistence, enthusiasm, and
positive thinking. Finish it with a resounding bang
of accomplishment and with the desire to help others
succeed as well.